This is how the bully operates:
He/She locates the haters, fools and idiots.
Then . . . follows this simple human nature process ~
Rumors are carried by haters, spread by fools, and accepted by idiots.
He/She looms over the situation and treats the world as if it owes him/her something.
To battle the bully:
Believe in yourself.
Believe in truth and honesty.
Believe in doing the right thing.
Believe in integrity - of principle and self.
Believe that you are worthy.
And possibly, the most important thing, when you have been pushed
beyond your mental/physical/emotional capacity . . .
speak!
You need not speak harshly or rudely or curtly.
Speak from your heart and from your soul and from that space within you
that is illuminated with fortitude and determination and perseverance.
And remember that a bully's behavior
says nothing about you . . . but speaks volumes about them!
In dedication to another brilliant Ch-Angel ~ my dear friend Dianna!
You are braver than most. I stand in awe!
Go battle your bully!
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