Forgiveness!

Forgiveness . . . yikes!

This is a hard one!

When you are hurt ~ be it physically, mentally, emotionally or any combination of those dreaded things, it is terribly difficult to move past that pain. It becomes a weight - anchoring you to that event, or person, or injustice. That added weight is most unhealthy, just like the real weight we gain. It causes more damage than the actual injury.

You must learn to forgive!

Forgive - by definition means - to grant pardon for or to; to cancel (as in a debt); or to cease to feel angry at or for. In its simplest form and explanation, it means to free yourself! To allow yourself to move forward. If you continue to hold on to the damage and detriment, you are not allowing room for blessings and benefits. It is physically impossible to carry it all.

Forgive does NOT mean forget. A life lesson is a life lesson and things should be learned from it. You may become a little more cautious, a little more tentative, but you will move on . . . improved! It is much easier said than done, but when you allow yourself to forgive those who have hurt you and you realize that it truly is THEIR burden to bear, you days seem a little brighter, a little less oppressive. It is a beautiful weight-loss program that truly makes you more attractive instantly!

You look mahhhhhhhhhvelous!