There is a dear friend of mine that I attended school with a million years ago that has posted statements about a 'friend' whose scathing remarks and comments are very hurtful and always have been. Might I ask an obvious question?
Why would you keep this friend?
Hurtful words are no different than angry fists. The injuries may not be as obvious as bruises, but the scars usually run much deeper and last a lot longer. The only good thing about a person with a vile, hateful tongue is that it is simple to leave it wagging in your rear-view. There is NOTHING helpful about a person with hurtful words!
You can have honest friends. Friends who will quickly tell you the outfit you're wearing is inappropriate, or your super red lipstick needs a little make-up around it, or that you might be behaving badly. Those same people will stand by you, undaunted, through everything . . . in full support with all their love. THAT is a friend.
You need to realize that you are worth more than this 'friend' could ever conceive and point your shoes in another direction. No one hurts you without your permission. Remove your friend or remove yourself from the situation. Nothing good comes from absorbing abuse. Strength and resilience can be learned from many other sources.
You are important. You are beautiful. You are worthy. You are loved. Believe it. Plant yourself in the garden of positive, with soil that's rich in support and love, showered with raindrops of kindness, and bathed in the sunshine of God's blessings.
Weed regularly!!!
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