Beginagain

No . . . it's not a new restaurant.

It does, however, remind of a sign that used to hang in my kitchen in Rosendale
that said, "Kwitchyerbellakin".

It is New Year's Eve.
A day/night to celebrate whatever blessings and lessons 2016 has brought you.

Tomorrow . . .

Beginagain!

Make 2017 what you want.
Make goals.
Make plans.
Know you'll falter.
Know you'll slip.
Stay focused.
Stay positive.
Make it marvelous!

Beginagain!

Ch-Angels Everywhere

I am truly blessed.
I am surrounded by some pretty amazing folks;
Ch-Angels even!

Folks who stay in touch
and have for eons.
Folks who support me
unwaveringly.
Folks who love me
without question.
Folks who just seem to know
when I need a hug,
or a phone call,
or a laugh,
or to vent,
or just to quietly exist in secure comfort.

It's a beautiful thing.
I wish for your 2017 a world abundantly full
of your own Ch-Angels.

A Little More

When your family has all but driven you mad,
love them a little more.
When work has pushed to a 'postal' brink,
breathe a little more.
When your health has reached a breaking point,
rest a little more.
When you're feeling lost and without cause,
give a little more.
When you're sad and feeling a little down,
laugh a little more.
When you can't seem to take another step,
push on a little more.

No matter the situation,
there is always . . .
a little more.

In The Moment

It's a hard one to grasp.

We are either so determined
to figure out he past;
decide what went wrong and how,
how could it have gone differently,
what could we have done

Or so very worried and anxious
about tomorrow;
how can we manipulate the future,
what can we do to stack the deck in our favor,
how do we ensure success

That we forget to enjoy the moment we are in.
The simplicity.
The beauty.
The blessing.
The joy.
The laughter.
The company.
The hope.
The love.

Today . . .
be In The Moment.
Enjoy what abounds around you.

Be Brave!

Things may seem hard.
Be brave.
Things may be difficult.
Be brave.
People may seem ugly.
Be brave.
Situations might seem daunting.
Be brave.
Life may be overwhelming.
Be brave.

You don't need a cape.
You don't need a sword.
You don't need magic powers.

You just need to take
one
more
step.

A Challenge

Today is National Thank You Card Day.
So . . . here's your challenge . . .

Not for anything you received on Christmas,
nor Hannukah,
nor Kwanzaa.

I challenge you (and myself)
to grab a Thank You card ~ or just a blank card ~
and sit down with a writing implement.
No emails or texts.
I want you to hand write a Thank You
to some one who has touched your life,
your heart,
your soul,
and express to them your gratitude
for their existence in your life.

Feel free to get all slobbery and sentimental.
Feel free to lose your emotional boundaries altogether.
Just write.
Then . . . address that baby and mail it off.

Not only will you have wandered through a memory
that has brought back fabulous conjurings of wonderful events,
but you will deliver to the recipient
a joyful tiding of, perhaps, something they were unaware of.

Spread the joy!
Go . . . write.

Celebrate

Merry Christmas!
Happy Chanukah!
Happy Kwanzaa!
Happy post-Festivus!


Whatever you might be celebrating . . .
celebrate wholly!

Enjoy!

As for me and mine,
Merry Christmas and God bless!

Merry Christmas!

The air is crisp,
the frost is nigh.
The brilliance beams
from Angels high.
Lift your heart
with helping hands.
Step away from
earthly demands.
Stand up tall
on bended knee.
Acknowledge all
He's done for thee.
Wrap yourself
in love's sweet bow.
Rest assured
in Heaven's glow.
Open arms
and open hearts.
You are where
the season starts.

Merry Christmas!
Make it bright.

Gifts Abound

You need not be wealthy to be surrounded by gifts.
Gifts abound!

Feel the sun upon your face.
Catch a snowflake on your tongue (if geographically inclined).
Dip your toes in the sand (if geographically inclined).
Listen to laughter, or music, or both.
Read a book.
Take a walk.
Explore a new area.
Stroll down memory lane.
Call an old friend.
Make a new friend.
Extend a hand and feel the love.

Your bounty is limitless
if you choose to look beyond retail.

Unwrap Something Wonderful

There is so much to marvel at this time of year.
The icicles, the snow, the lights.
The shiny papers, pretty bows, big boxes, and little bags.
The decorations, ornaments, nativities.
The smells of baking, the festive music, the tastes of treats.
It's simply a scrumptious feast for the senses.

I hope you are able to immerse yourself in all of that.
I hope you can truly enjoy the joyfulness of the season.
Moreso . . . I would love to see the excitement in your eyes
when you unwrap something wonderful.
Your Own Self!

Unwrap that inner child.
Unwrap that gleeful wonder.
Unwrap that giving heart.
Unwrap that eager hug.
Unwrap that gracious joy.
Unwrap your many blessings.

Unwrap Something Wonderful!

Christmastime

I love to be with family at Christmas.
The rituals we share each year are priceless.
The smiles and laughter and goofiness are blessings.
This year, it will not be.
My heart is heavy, but . . .
and listen to me carefully . . .

I understand that folks are by themselves.
I understand this may be the first celebration without someone.
I understand tensions are high.
I understand finances are always a mess.
But . . .

We are NEVER alone!

Psalm 73:23
Yet I am always with you,
you hold me by my right hand.

It is a season of believing.
A season of faith.
A season of knowing we are never alone.
That those that have blessedly passed sit beside His throne.

God bless and keep you.
Enjoy His Company.

A Beautiful Gift

So I received a gift on Saturday.

It wasn't a car with a ginormous bow on top.
It wasn't gemstones all sparkly and brilliant.
It wasn't a sack of cash for my every whim and fancy.
It was a magnet.

It said,

I think I'll just be happy today!

From a beautiful soul,
with a generous heart,
and a glorious friend.

It is perfect!
Thank you . . .

for the gift, and so much more.

Now . . . go be happy today.

Let Go

From one of my favorites - C.S. Lewis:

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars,
you have to let go at some point in order to move forward.

Scary.
White-knuckled.
Dangling.

Reach, in faith, for the next rung of whatever comes.
Enjoy the journey.

Underdog Day

It is National Underdog Day!

I'm not sure if we're supposed to celebrate the little cartoon pooch,
or if every single person . . .
no matter their financial status,
no matter their free time,
no matter their ability,
goes out and makes a positive impact
on someone else's life.

As much as I like Shoeshine Boy,
I'm going with the second choice!

Decorate Your Life

Christmas is not about presents.
It is not about ribbons and bows.
It is not about twinkly lights.
It is not about how much stuff is under the tree.

It's so much more.
Decorate your life.

Hang happiness on your every limb.
Sprinkle joy all over.
Light up the days with your smile.
Twinkle for all to see.
Don your beaming star
or break out your Angels.
Your presence is vital.
Be the gift someone needs.

A Stolen Gem

I 'borrowed' this from a friend.

This is for moms.
And, by moms, I mean the folks who have birthed babies,
taken on the roll of raising babies,
quasi-adopted and love lots of babies,
and those that generally feel all babies belong to them:

My children ask...what do I want for Christmas?
The real answer . . . I want you.

I want you to keep coming around.
I want you to ask me questions, ask my advice,
tell me your problems, ask for my opinion, ask for my help.
I want you to come over and rant about your problems, rant about life, whatever.
Tell me about your job, your worries, your relationships, your friends.
I want you to continue sharing your life with me.
Come over and laugh with me, or laugh at me. I don't care.
Hearing you laugh is such a priceless treasure.

I spent a good part of my life raising you the best way I knew how.
Now I want to sit back and admire my work.
I want to hear your ups and downs.
I want to know your goals and ambitions.
I'd love to sit and play a game.
Raid my refrigerator. Help yourself.
I really don't mind.
In fact, I wouldn't want it any other way.

I want you to spend your money making a better life for you.
I have the things I need.
I want to see you happy and healthy.
You've already given me my gift all year and every year.
I want you. 

The Greatest Joy

The Greatest Joy:

It is not marriage,
it is the joining together of two destined souls.
It is not the birth of a child,
but the giving of life.
It is not the milestones we reach,
but the good they produce.
It is not the obstacles we overcome,
but the lessons we learn.
It is not in purchasing the perfect gift,
but in giving of yourself.
It is not in loving the masses,
but in simply opening your heart.
It is not in acquiring wealth,
but in realizing one another's value.

Have a joyous season!

Take a Walk

Although it's currently raining,
and taking a literal walk right now would not be a lot of fun;
there are many ways to do so.

Grab a yearbook.
Listen to some old music.
Take out a photo album.
Call an old pal.
Take a stroll through the cobwebbed corners of your mind.
Memories are a beautiful gift.
They cannot be stolen.
They cannot be destroyed.
They may fade,
but can easily be dusted off and relived whenever you choose.

The walk you take doesn't have to be sad.
It may bring tears, but it need not be melancholy.
Cherish the time and events together.
Bask in the glories of your escapades.
Envelope yourself in the joys you were blessed with.

Go . . .
give a gift to yourself.
Take a Walk.

Human, Right?

Today marks Human Rights Day.
A day to celebrate and uphold every person's choice to be themselves.
I'm all for it.
Be whoever you want to be.
Believe whatever you'd like to believe.
All I ask is that if you'd like for me to respect your choices,
you do the same for me.

If we choose to acknowledge Human Rights,
we must each first be Human, Right?

Fantasmagorical

Stop whatever you are doing.
Put down whatever you believe to be so important.
Quick!
Find a mirror.
Now look at the incredibly beautiful soul in there.
Yes . . . the one looking back at you.

Know what an extraordinary being you are.
Realize your value.
See the worth.
Understand the significance with which you exist.

Now,
smile and go grab the day!
Make it fantasmagorical!

Wonderful!

Had a dear friend post a picture that said,

Always believe something wonderful is about to happen!

She couldn't have been more spot on!

Now I am aware that there are always extenuating circumstances.
I realize there are all kinds of obstacles - if you choose to see them.
But there is also always all kinds of wonderful.

Let it engulf you.
Let it sweep over you.
There are bumps and bruises and dangers and whatever,
but . . .

there is also Wonderful!

That's OK

When I was very young, I tried Brownies/Girl Scouts.
It was fun, but it wasn't for me, and that's OK.
I took dance lessons for eons and learned a lot.
I didn't pursue it and that's OK.
I tried to learn to play the piano. I can play and read music.
I'm no maestro and that's OK.
I learned to play golf and beat a lot of the boys (from the men's tees).
I could have chased that dream, but didn't, and that's OK.
I spent years doing gymnastics. (The dance helped).
I was decent but not spectacular, and that's OK.
I joined the track team. Loved to run and jump.
Sprints were my bag, no long distance . . . and that's OK.
I write poetry and blogs and stories and letters.
I'm able to touch a few and that's OK.
I do a lot of volunteering cause it feels like the right thing to do.
I can help a soul or two and that's OK.

I don't need accolades or spotlights or trophies or medals.
I don't need participation awards.
I don't need back pats or headlines or bi-lines.

I know I try.
I know I do my best.
I know I attempt to make a difference.
and . . .
That's OK.

How about you?

A Joyful Noise

I have moved several times in my life.
Each time, I gathered up what belongings I had
and traversed to a new place.
No matter my baggage,
the people who 'travelled' with me were most important.
Things will be obtained and lost,
bought and sold,
built and broken.
Those that reside in your heart,
will live there for eternity.
Yesterday, I was blessed with a lengthy phone call
from a friend that I just left in Florida.
The day before that was another lengthy call
from a friend, and stuff.

What a joyful noise!
What a beautiful conversation!
What a full and happy heart!

Thank you!

Enjoy whatever joyful noise fills your heart.

Move Forward

Moving forward is not always as easy as it sounds.
Sometimes, we are mired in fear;
sometimes frozen in anxiety;
sometimes stuck in our own excuses.

No matter how minute.
No matter how tentative.
No matter how frightened . . .
move forward.

It is that first step,
though it may be a doozie,
that gets you started toward adventures unknown;
potential unrealized;
dreams now dormant.

Move.
Move Forward.

It's up to you

Only as high as I reach can I grow;
only as far as I seek can I go;
only as deep as I look can I see;
only as much as I dream can I be.

~ Karen Ravn

It's up to you.

Do The Right Thing Anyway

There will always be those
who speculate as to your reasoning.
There will always be those
who question your motives.
There will always be those
who are uncertain of your efforts.
Do The Right Thing Anyway.

There will be those
who dislike your methods.
There will be those
jealous of your actions.
There will be those
spiteful of your achievements.
Do The Right Thing Anyway.

When you do what you should do,
regardless of the outcome,
regardless of the accolades,
regardless of the honor,
it's called integrity.
Do The Right Thing . . . Any Way!

Thank You

Two little angels visited me yesterday.

One said that I am too sugary sweet.
The other said that I am a source of their strength.
Thank you both.

For my 'sugary sweet' friend . . .
it is ok to indulge every now and again.
It is not a lack of practicality that I suffer from,
but rather a direction of hope.

And for my 'source' friend,
it is that hopeful direction for which I strive.
Whether it is solely for myself,
or if I have touched another life in a positive manner,
that I am a success.

Thank you both.

Too Much

As November closes,
there is much to be thankful for.
Faith.
Family.
Friends.
Health.
Hope.
Happiness.

Life will always throw you curveballs.
There will always be struggles.
There will be sadness and there will be pain.
It is ok to duck, swear, cry and moan.
But it is NEVER ok to quit.

There is too much to love;
too much to embrace;
too much to learn;
too much to give;
too much to share;
too much.

Giving

Today is National Giving Day.

I have my passions and those places I will donate to.
What are your passions?
Where does your heart lead you?

Giving isn't about always opening your checkbook.
Not everyone is blessed with abundance in that area.
Sometimes, giving is about time and talents.
Give what you are able.
Give of your self.
Give of your heart.

It is one of the healthiest exercises you could ever partake in.

Be Intelligent

In order to survive,
one must be not only able, but willing,
to listen, educate, and make informed decisions.

I am a big softy.
I wish every day for everyone to get along.
I hope each minute for peace and compassion.
I realize that's a big ask.

I am not so gullible, however,
as to simply believe whatever I hear.
I ask questions.
I will go to the source, if it's available, and tear it up.
I read. I learn. I ponder. I search.
Sometimes, I will separate myself  from what I love so dearly,
as to understand things better.
That is a painful task for me, albeit necessary.
I don't judge you from your past.
I base opinions on actions and direct speech that I hear.
Gossip is only good for making gardens grow.

Love who you'd like.
Open your heart entirely.
Give unconditionally.
But be intelligent about it.

Spiteful Ambition

To those who were the kindling;
thank you.
To those who told me I couldn't;
thank you.
To those who said I won't;
thank you.
To those who judged me;
thank you.
To those who assumed;
thank you.
To those who confronted me;
thank you.
To those that bullied me;
thank you.

You have filled me with Spiteful Ambition -
the most dangerous kind.

I will succeed;
I will improve;
I will be bold;
I will step out;
I will overcome;
I will follow my heart;
I will be a better me;
I will be strong;
I will be faithful -

In spite of you!
Thanks!

Seussism

One of my favorites . . .

Don't cry because it's over,
Smile because it happened.

This, of course, can be applied to Thanksgiving dinner,
but it can also be applied to just about a million other things.

Seek the deeper meaning
and realize its value.

And Smile!

Happy Thanksgiving!

Give Thanks!
Today and every day.

For love; for loss,
for passings; for births,
for pains; for triumphs,
for anger; for peace,
for trials; for victories,
for betrayals; for balance,
for friends; for family,
for tears; for laughter,
for trepidation; for bravery,
for every little thing.

Every moment is a gift,
a precious time to live and love and laugh.
Enjoy it all.

I am thankful for YOU!

Many Thanks

We are all one people.
I am thankful and grateful for each of you.

Dankie
Shukran
Do Jeh
Tak
Kiitos
Merci
Danke
Efharisto
Toda
Sukria
Terima Kasih
Grazie
Arigato
Kamsa Hamnida
Salamat Po
Dziekuje
Obrigado
Spasiba
Gracias
Istutiy
Asante
Tesekkur Ederim
Thank You!

Enjoy your day.

Thank You!

I am a very thankful person.
I have learned an important life lesson.
I have learned to be grateful for ALL the people in my life.
Not just the ones who love me and care about me and support me.
I am appreciatve of those folks who told me "No!";
of those folks who teased me;
of those folks who judged me;
of those folks who belittled me;
of those folks who betrayed me;
of those folks who lied to me;
of those folks who cheated me.

Those that love and care and support are my foundation.
They are my core, my heart, my soul.

Those that have done the other things,
they taught me strength;
and resilience;
and compassion;
and self-reliance;
and tenacity;
and honesty;
and independence.

You may have hurt me momentarily,
but you built someone with an extraordinary gentle ferocity.
I embrace your shortcomings,
your need to demean,
your pitiful actions.

Thank You!

Happy Heart

Whether racing beside you
or simply beating in rhythm,
my heart is Happy when I'm with you.

Find who you're happy with.
Keep that happy in your heart.
No one can ever take it away!

Connected

There are some gazillion people in the world.
It is hard to conceive that we are all connected.

We are either related,
choose to be 'related',
tethered by friendship,
fastened through fate,
united by passions,
partnered through efforts,
joined in faith,
and all bound by love.

Enjoy the ties that bind us.

Home

A tiny little word,
with enormous value!

Anyone can own a house,
but it takes something special to have a home.
Whether it is for solitude,
for a relaxing couple,
a hustling, bustling family,
or a pile of critters . . .
a home is the extension of the love it is filled with.

It doesn't have to be a mansion.
It can be a tent.
It doesn't have to be fancy.
It can be barren.
The only requirement
is love.

Your Cheerios

There will always be folks
whose greatest joy is peeing in your Cheerios.
(I'd really like to know where that quote originated.)
Although I occasionally have to deal with them,
those folks are not really my cup o' tea.

I prefer those who add strawberries,
or peaches,
or berries,
or a spoonful of sugar . . .

or just offer Frosted Flakes.

Go have a sweet day!

Entertaining Angels

Be not forgetful to share kindnesswith every stranger,
for thereby some have entertained angels unawares.

They really are everywhere.
Kindness matters.
Kindness counts.
Kindness is imperative.

Whispers

There are ALWAYS whispers.
What whispers do you listen to?

Do you listen to the faint gurgle of jealous tongues
that waggle with harmful insults?

Do you listen to the ripples from deafening screams
from those so desperate to be heard?

Or do you listen to the quiet voice inside your heart
that speaks of kindness
and love
and generosity
and giving
and support
and hospitality
and hope?

I know the whispers that fill my head!

Difficult Roads

Difficult roads often lead
to beautiful destinations!

There really is no need
for much elaboration or embellishment.
Go read that first line again.

Think about where you are.
Think about how far you've already come.
I think you're doing pretty well.

Fear not the journey,
for the culmination is extraordinary.

Vista

What you see out the window
and what I see out the same window
can be two very different sights.

I cannot alter your vision.
I see a beautiful horizon.
I cannot move what you see as obstacles.
I see opportunities and exploration.
I cannot change your glass's lenses.
I see sunshine and a new day.

And yet, we look out the same pane.

What vista will you choose?

Comfort

Ah . . . the comfort of my own computer.

Back to normalcy, except of course . . .
I have no desk,
I'm sitting on the floor,
there are raging wild fires far too close,
my feet are freezing cause I can't find my slippers,
can't drink my coffee while typing cause there's no place to set it down,
and I'm a little sleepy cause I can't seem to sleep through the night.

But, I'm comfy.

I'm writing . . . to you all.
I'm sharing positive thoughts,
pleasant tones,
uplifting vibes,
and unceasing faith,
back in my happy place.

THAT is what makes me comfortable.
How about you?

New Beginnings

Sorry I was MIA.
There was a 28' tractor trailer in my driveway, new floors to put in, paint to be painted,
wallpaper to be ripped down, things to be cleaned, and much to learn.

New beginnings are exciting.
They are also exhausting.
(And a wee bit chilly!)

But every new beginning holds opportunity.
And every day is a new beginning.
It is a chance to create what you'd like.
To build what you envision.
To envelope the positive.

Go and have a glorious new beginning today;
and every day!

What are YOU thankful for?

Today, and every day,
I am thankful for the wonderful things in my life.
I'm thankful for my husband.
I'm thankful for my children.
I'm thankful for my family.
I'm thankful for my friends.
I'm thankful for my health.

But . . .
I'm also thankful for
pain
betrayal
loss
ugliness
anger
hate
bitterness
childishness
stupidity.

Having to deal with these things,
rise above them,
defeat them,
and realize where they dwell,
has made me stronger,
smarter,
craftier,
more resilient,
braver,
and self-reliant.

What are YOU thankful for?

Be You!

You are extraordinary!
You offer such unique and amazing traits
to this world.
You are beautiful.
You are kind.
You are graceful.
You are formidable.
You are strong.
You are incredible.

Don't ever try to be anyone else.
Then who would be you?

Grateful

November brings a flood of all sorts of good stuff;

Food
Thankfulness
Family
Gratitude
Warmth
Friends
Comfort
Hope

Here's hoping that yours begins with bountiful blessings.

Ch-Angel for Halloween

I have always had a hard time accepting compliments,
receiving gifts,
allowing gracious behavior.
I would rather be the giver of all those things
and when faced with being the recipient
I am often overcome with emotion.

This weekend, my Halloween Ch-Angel appeared.
Dressed as a new neighbor,
he came and did a bunch of yard work at our new house
(because all of our tools are still in storage).
When I called to thank him, he asked what I did at the house.
I told him I cleared one room of the carpet for upcoming installation.
I told him that I'd be doing a room each day over the weekend
prepping for Tuesday's install.
He popped in yesterday morning and tore up the other two rooms for me.
I literally sobbed.

To realize that there are still good folks out there,
just looking to do favors,
without expectation of repayment or reciprocation,
is a beautiful thing.

God bless my new Ch-Angel neighbor.
You earned your wings, and then some, my friend.

Hoping you're surrounded by Ch-Angels this spooky day, too.

It's In There

Worried about tomorrow?
Worried about your health?
Worried about finances?
Worried about challenges?
Worried about life?

YOU hold the answers.

You have more strength,
brains,
brawn,
resilience,
brilliance,
ingenuity,
tenacity,
integrity,
and beauty . . .
right inside your incredible self.

It's In There!

What's in your heart?

What is in your heart,
spills out.

If there is anger in there,
violence comes out.
If there is hatred in there,
ugliness comes out.
If there is jealousy in there,
evil comes out.

If there is joy in there,
happiness exudes.
If there is peace in there,
kindness is expelled.
If there is love in there,
goodness oozes out.

What's in your heart?

Walk

Whether teeny tiny baby steps,
or giant leaps,
whilst pushing great weight,
or whilst picking daisies,
confidently,
or atop eggshells,
Walk!

Go forward.
Step in the direction of your hopes,
of your dreams,
of your passion.

Walk

Good Stuff

Whilst wandering around yesterday,
I came across this little tidbit that just made me stop
and read it several times.

Good stuff here.

Prepare the child for the path,
not the path for the child.

If we mold our children into
strong,
independent,
productive,
thinking,
creative,
loving,
problem-solvers . . .
the path stands no chance.

Success

More pondering for you.
Don't mean to make you think so much,
but this is what I'm all about . . .

If you want to be successful, success cannot be your goal,
work instead to be significant and success will follow.

Not famous.

Not wealthy.

Not acclaim.

Significant!

Go make a difference.

Something to Ponder

Read this in a great book I just finished
and it really struck me.
Let's hope it strikes you too.

For those who believe,
no explanation is necessary.
For those who do not believe,
no explanation is possible.

Ponder.
Ponder.
Ponder.

MADD

Nope,
this is not about Mothers Against Drunk Drivers,
although I'm pretty sure EVERYONE is against drunk drivers.

Today's "MADD" is for Make A Difference Day!

And just like every person is against drunk drivers,
every day is make a difference day.

But, if we can start with just one day
and do something . . .
anything . . .
to make a difference,
imagine the ripple we might create.
A tsunami of kindness.
Wouldn't that be amazing.

Go . . . MADD!!!

Didja Know

Didja know:

how special you are?
how beautiful you are?
how important you are?
how vital you are?
how inspiring you are?
how incredible you are?
how stunning you are?
how fun you are?
how fabulous you are?
how needed you are?
how loved you are?

Know It!

What and Who

So I have mentioned prior that I write my little Ch-Angels blog
to lift you up,
to make your day brighter,
to start you off on the right foot.
Well, sometimes, (most times) I do it for me too!

:-)

Today is especially true!

I don't know what tomorrow holds,
but I know who holds tomorrow.

You can walk in anxiety
and fear
and sickening anticipation,
or you can stride through your day
knowing that you're going
EXACTLY where you need to go.

I Hope You Catch It

A healthy attitude,
positive gestures,
kind actions,
a giving heart,
gracious ways,
loving living
is contagious!

I Hope You Catch It!

And spread that stuff around!

Like a bridge . . .

Another great one that is simply profound:

I asked God,
"Why are you taking me through troubled waters?"
He replied,
"Because your enemies cannot swim."

Your path may not always be paved in gold,
filled with sunshine,
embellished with flowers and gemstones,
but it is purposeful
and planned.

Enjoy your day.

The Greatest Mistake

By Elbert Hubbard:

The greatest mistake that you can make in life
is to continually fear you will make one.

We cannot be afraid to blow up birthday balloons
because we know they can pop.
We cannot be afraid to take the training wheels off
because we know we could fall.
We cannot be afraid to try something new
because we know we might fail.

Failure isn't final.
It's winning, working on its finesse game.

Simple Things

It seems to me that the world is all tangled up
in wanting the biggest tv's,
the smartest phones,
the largest pay checks,
the fanciest cars.

They've forgotten the simple things.
They've forgotten how vital and refreshing
the simple things are.
A hug.
A phone call.
A little quiet company.
A handwritten letter.
A dinner with laughter.
A gentle smile.
A hand held.
An I love you.

Let's get back to the Simple Things.

For Others

So often, in the midst of our troubles,
we question the invisible with a desperate "Why?"
We barter our health,
our fortunes,
our breath
for answers and positive outcomes.
Having been there, on multiple occasions,
I can tell you the best 'chip' you've got to barter with
is your ability to be available for others.
Your experience is a gift.
Your tenacity is a security blanket.
Your weakness is a welcome chink in the armor
we're supposed to don.
Your faith is a pillar for others to see.
Your outlook is the life-preserver they're looking to cling to.

I believe we fight battles for many reasons.
Sometimes the most beneficial right hook you can give
is by simply being open and honest with others.
Let them know you understand.
Let them know you feel their pain.
Let them know you'll fight beside them.
Let them know you'll cry with them
Let them know you're there.

To My Warriors

I've seen this before.
I loved it then. I love it now.
And it is so very appropriate for so many of my warrior friends.

Fate screams to the warrior:
"You cannot withstand the storm."
and the warrior whispers back:
"I am the storm!"

Whatever you are facing,
remember that you ARE a warrior!

Worth the Wait

Sometimes the simple unfolding of a day
is a grand lesson of life.

Here, in the beautiful mountains of North Carolina,
my mornings begin filled with fog
and a brisk chill to the air.
I cannot see the house across the hills.
I do not venture out to walk the dog without a jacket.
By mid-afternoon,
the veil of mist has lifted and the view is spectacular.
The temperature simmers at a gorgeous 78 degrees
with no humidity.
It is stunning and worth the wait.

Remember that.

Whatever troubles your morning may bring,
know that something better is there for you
and it's . . .

worth the wait.

Your Goal

There are those that truly leave their mark on the world.
They are not famous or rich.
They simply did a few things to improve the lives
and self-esteems of others.

When it is your time - here is your goal:

Those that loved her lost so much in her passing,
yet gained so very much at her living.

Learn a Little

Each day, learn a little.
Do something new.
Go someplace unexplored.
Read something interesting.
Love someone unloved.

The benefits are extraordinary.

Do Good

"The greatest good you can do for another
is not just to share your riches
but to reveal to him his own."

Take a moment today
to give someone the gift of self assurance.
It is a priceless and immeasurable blessing . . .
for them
and you!

March On

Rhythm.
If you enjoy music at all, you know it sets the tone.
It can incite you.
It can soothe you.
It can bring a smile.
It can conjure a tear.
It is powerful.

Life is much the same.
Look for the pattern that creates your happy.
Look for the base line that suits your soul.
Whether it is rockin' and wild;
or bluesy and chill;
or perhaps a bit of both.

Find your rhythm
and march on.

Breathe Easy

Find what comforts you.
Seek out what lovingly envelopes you.
Search for what makes your heart happy.

Grab that.
Hold on.

Breathe Easy!

Today and ALWAYS

Although today is designated as such,
this should be done every second
of every minute
of every hour
of every day.

It is National Do Something Nice Day!!!

Wherever you go, there are opportunities.
Open a door for someone.
Buy a coffee for the person behind you.
Chip in some cash for the grocery shopper next in line.
Lend an unexpected hand to someone in need.
Allow that crazy driver to merge.
Smile at a total stranger.
Freely give a compliment.
It truly takes minimal effort
and the effect can last a lifetime.

Go!
Do Something Nice!

Thank You

When you realize how thankful you should be,
you realize how blessed you are.

Thankful to have greeted a new day.
Thankful to have a roof over my head.
Thankful to enjoy a cup o' joe.
Thankful to have company.
Thankful to look out on such beauty and peace.
Thankful to be able to walk out and sit on a patio.
Thankful to jump in my car for errands.
Thankful to mostly have my health - aches and pains and sniffles aside.
Thankful to connect with friends and family.
Thankful to know I'm never alone.
Thankful to know I matter.
Thankful to have love and support.
Thankful to realize I can rise to any task.
Thankful to feel unique and special.
Thankful to have you in my life.

Thank You!

A good Monday question

I don't know where I saw this,
but I simply had to share.

As you immerse yourself
in the beauty of the world;
the beauty of the world
immerses itself in you.

With little expectation
but grand hopes;
with limited vision
but beautiful vistas;
with disjointed dreams
but much faith;
I find serenity and joy and peace.

What will you immerse yourself in?

PPT

About a thousand years ago, whilst in my Amway phase,
I was given "The Power of Positive Thinking"  book to read.
It made an impact.
I'm not sure it sculpted my thought process, but it certainly
made me pause to ponder how to react to things.
It is normal to be angry when someone does you wrong.
It is normal to be disappointed when someone lets you down.
It is normal to be devastated when you are betrayed.
BUT . . .
In the grand scheme of things, how does it really effect you?

When someone does me wrong,
it speaks volumes about who they are, not me.
When someone lets me down,
it speaks to their inabilities, not my own.
When someone betrays me,
it is a flaw within their character, not mine.

I am not perfect, but how I respond to others and their behavior
makes a tremendous difference.
A positive mind is a happy mind.
A positive soul is a joyous soul.
A positive heart attracts the same.

The Power of Positive Thinking really works!
Go B Positive

Battered Poetry

'Two roads diverged in a wood,
and I,
I took the one less travelled by,
and that has made all the difference.'

I struggled through the underbrush,
jumped a few ravines,
stood at the foot of endless cliffs,
pondered jumping at a precipice,
and yet,
I carried on;
scraped and scratched and exhausted;
believing the one less travelled
was right for me.

What's beyond the unknown curve?

Yes You!

You!
Yes You!
You are extraordinary.
You are capable.
You are intelligent.
You are beautiful.
You are strong.
You are fierce.
You are kind.
You are gentle.
You are bold.
You are daring.
You are generous.
You are patient.
You are important.
You are unique.
You, quite simply,
are irreplaceable.
Yes You!
You!

A bone to pick . . .

Saw something this morning, that hit a nerve;
or perhaps a bone.

In order to be successful in life,
you must possess only three bones:

A wishbone
A backbone
and
A funnybone

Keep your dreams alive.
Stand up for what you believe.
Laugh at life and yourself.

DUO

No, not Batman and Robin.
Not Abbott and Costello.
Not Sonny and Cher.

DUO

Do Unto Others . . .

You remember . . . that old Golden Rule thing?
Since when did the Golden Rule come
with addendums and stipulations and regulations?

Do Unto Others As You Would Have Them Do Unto You!

Plain and simple.
Straightforward.
No ifs, ands, or buts.
Oh but the world would be a magnificent venue.

Patience

Patience is a virtue.
It's also extremely difficult sometimes.

We are eager for days to pass,
moments to come,
celebrations to happen.

However difficult it may be,
today I want you to breathe.
Stop what you're doing
and breathe.

Don't hurry life along.
Savor every second,
cherish every smile,
every warm hello,
every friendly greeting,
each til-we-meet again.
Bask in the blessing you're in.
It's beautiful.

Patience is more than a virtue.
It is vital to your happiness.

Open Up

Open Up.

Open Up to growth.
Open Up to belief.
Open Up to faith.
Open Up to failure.
Open Up to lessons.
Open Up to opportunity.
Open Up to space.
Open Up to kindness.
Open Up to sharing.
Open Up to generosity.
Open Up to love.

When you Open Up
no one can close you down.

Go and Blossom!

Alphabetter

Try to remember
that when Plan A doesn't seem to be working,
there are twenty-five other letters
to choose from!

Open

Today, in the midst of so much chaos,
be open.

Open to acceptance.
Open to education.
Open to patience.
Open to kindness.
Open to fairness.
Open to opportunity.
Open to faith.
Open to love.
Open to hope.

For when you shut off ANY of those,
you turn them all off.

Expect It

Expect blessings.
There they are.
Expect opportunities.
There they are.
Expect support.
There it is.
Expect love.
You'll be surrounded by it.
Expect grace.
It is yours.

Expect It!

Control

Control.
Such a silly word.
When you realize that there's no chance of ever gaining it,
life becomes much simpler.
Like trying to nail jello to a tree;
or trying to take something away from a two year old;
it is an obscure, intangible wish;
a fleeting hope.
Realize that control lies somewhere else.
You can plan and be organized, but you need to roll with the punches.
You can prepare, but you've got to be able to adapt and overcome.
Control is a futile opportunity that, when relinquished,
offers you more freedom that you'd ever imagine.

Give it up.
Next!

Joy

I have lived surrounded by woods
and I have lived by the water.
Each holds a special spot in my heart.
Each brings a soothing peace to my soul.
The lapping waves; the quiet solitude.
The rhythmic roll; the lulling chirp.
Joy is where you find it.
I've never been a city girl.
They're fun; but that's not where my heart is.
I'm most content in nature;
enveloped by the beautiful gifts God created;
surrounded by creatures and sights and smells
that only come from the purity of this Earth.

Wherever you are;
Wherever you are most content;
Breathe it in today.
Bask in the things that bring you joy.
Joy is where you find it.

Your Day

Each day is a new gift.
A new chance.
Unknown occurrences.
Unknown opportunities.
Grab what provides you peace,
tranquility,
positivity.
It is your choice.
It is your day.

TTNH

After nearly 20 years in one location, one gets connected.
It is very difficult, for an emotional person, to pick up and leave those connections.
But . . . "It is not goodbye. It's Til The Next Hug!"

And so, with all of our belongings stuffed into a tractor trailer,
we are off on a new adventure.
We will miss so many people; so many laughs; so many friends; so much love.
We will miss relationships and support and mutual efforts and love.
We will miss the silliness and shenanigans.

But . . .
as with all changing landscapes . . .

It is not goodbye. It is:

Til The Next Hug!


Forgive me if I've AWOL for a short while.
I'll be back real soon! Stay in touch and know your matter.

Thank You - Part 2

This house has helped to raise my beautiful babies.
It has welcomed friends and supporters and family and critters.
It has enveloped us against ailments and problems and liars and cheats.
It has endured bouts of sarcasm and fits of laughter.
It has always been full of love.

For those of you who have graced my life, I appreciate you.
This is not goodbye. It is simply another place for you to visit.
My tears flow freely, but that is because my heart is so full.
Full of thanks.
Full of memories.
Full of contentment.
Full of love.
Your support and encouragement has sustained me and then some.
Thank you!

Now, to my babies . . .
Deanna ~ the world is your oyster. Shuck away!
You are bold and brilliant and beautiful and bullheaded.
An extraordinary soul with a heart full of goodness and love.
Your talents are many and your gifts are even greater.
Don't be timid. Don't be diminished. Don't be belittled.
You, my dear princess, can do whatever you want.

Miles ~ we are pals. We are buddies.  :-)
We've travelled many rough and bumpy roads,
but we've always managed to be goofy along the way.
Believe in yourself. Believe in your talents. Believe in your gifts.
You are driven, determined, dedicated, and dynamic.
You are worthy of unfailing, unflinching love. Grab it and go.
Don't ever let any other person decide your value. You're extraordinary.
Follow whatever dreams, passions, breweries, and foods your little heart desires.

Thanks, Florida, for your hospitality. It is time for new adventures!
My love to you all.

Thank You - Part 1

Every minute, every hour, every day
is just an opportunity to make a difference.
The choice you make each day is
will it be a positive or negative difference.

My life has not been all peaches and cream.
I come from what we once called a 'broken home'. I survived.
I dealt with much adversity growing up. I survived.
I ran away from the town I grew up in. I survived.
I faced many dilemmas as a young adult. I survived.
I made stupid choices and bad decisions. I survived.
I made beautiful friends and built grand relationships.
They helped me survive.

As I uproot once more and begin a new adventure,
I want to say 'Thank You!"
For those that oppressed me, thank you!
For those that denied me, thank you!
For those that belittled me, thank you!
For those that challenged me, thank you!
For those that enlightened me, thank you!
For those that guided me, thank you!
For those that supported me, thank you!

You own the skillset to make every circumstance useful.
I choose to learn and grown and blossom and share.
It is far more productive than the alternative.
I am me because of you.
Thank You!

Age

With age comes aches.
With age comes pains.
With age comes gray hair.
With age comes wrinkles.
With age comes loss.

Ah . . . but . . .

With age comes intelligence.
With age comes resilience.
With age comes patience.
With age comes wisdom.
With age comes focus.
With age comes grit.
With age comes love ~
of one's self, one's efforts, one's blessings.

Do not grumble about aging.
It is a privilege denied to many.

Never Forget

I don't normally blog on Sunday,
but today deserves a few words.

Fifteen years ago, this great nation was attacked.
Cowards struck at a main artery.
They caused much damage.
They caused much heartache.
They caused much destruction.
They caused a lot more than that as well.
We are not weak.
We are not easily scared.
We are not meek.
We are not intimidated.
We are strong.
We are resilient.
We are bold.
We are extraordinary.
The folks who fought, served, and died for all the opportunities and liberties you have
deserve much better than the politically-correct, gingerly-stepping, don't-want-to-offend-you
nonsense that is allowed today.
They fought for your right NOT to stand for the National Anthem.
But it is NOT this country that oppresses. It is the people with it.
You have turned upon yourselves. You have disappointed yourselves.
You have chosen to react to things instead of responding.
Be bold. Be brazen. Be strong. Be courageous.
But be those things for a cause you can effect, not for your 15 minutes to affect.

This nation came together as one flag-waving, patriot-driven, country-loving people.
We need to find that unity again, lest the memory of those lost is gone forever.
We will Never Forget.

Go be amazing

We really have no idea how strong we are,
until we are forced to be strong.
We really have no idea how bold we are,
until we are forced to be bold.
We really have no idea how competent we are,
until we are forced to be competent.
We really have no idea how brave we are,
until we are forced to be brave.

Sometimes, the easiest thing we can do
is curl up in a little ball and hide ~
from the chaos,
from the pain,
from the trials,
from the task.

But when you cannot fathom hiding, you realize how
strong,
bold,
competent,
and brave
you really are!

Go be amazing.

Roots

After twenty years,
one's roots tend to be deep.
It is hard to pluck them from the earth.
I've done it before.
I'll do it again.
After 50 years, however, one realizes
how very precious the root system is;
how vital all of that cultivation is;
how supportive that system is;
how integral it is to life.

The tree may be replanted,
but the roots always remain!

Winner! Winner!

Saw this snippet and just had to share.

I do not lose.
I either win or learn.

What a fabulous way to view things.
What a wonderful way to live.

And remember . . . when you learn, you win.

Enjoy this day!

My Blessings

There are blessings in the oddest places.
You just need to be ready to accept them.

After a very stressful couple of days,
I was invited out to dinner with a few friends.
If you know me, you know that it's unusual for me
to go out and do something for me.
I chose, however, to go out.
The brilliance of the two beautiful Ch-Angels
whose company I was blessed with was bountiful.
Not only good for my belly, but grand for my soul.
There was laughter and silliness and stories.
There was hugs and cherished treats.
There was a closeness and comfortableness
that washed away the day's nonsense.
It was much needed and tremendously appreciated.
I thank you!

And, as I strolled through the cards and gifts
upon arrival at home - shedding tears between giggles -
the phone rang.
Another Ch-Angel.
I've known this enveloping soul for nearly 40 years.
He's comforting, supportive, genuine, outstanding.
More laughter. A few more tears. Just joyous.

My blessings lie not in the tangible gadgets of the day;
but in the hearts and hugs of friends.
Thank you!

Grasp

In this whacky rat race of life,
we are all just jumping on that little silver wheel
and giving it our all every day.
Sometimes, we get tossed off.
Sometimes, it spins too fast.
Sometimes, we just get sweaty.
Sometimes, we dominate.
The secret is what you grasp on the way.

You can grasp the gossip.
You can grasp the nonsense.
You can grasp crazy.
Or . . .
You can grasp the hope.
You can grasp the faith.
You can grasp the love.
You can grasp opportunity.
You can grasp positive.
You can grasp passion.

You can let the wheel win,
or you can grasp victory.

Labor of Love

Today is Labor Day.
A day set aside to show appreciation to the labor force.
Those that tirelessly work to
pay the bills,
move ahead,
save for the future,
and grab a piece of the American Dream.

I would like, however, to offer a difference view point.
(you were expecting anything less?)

How about the Labor of Love?

How about:
working to assist each other
working to be kind
working to guide our youth
working to shed a little sunshine
working to be a positive change
working to be a difference
working to end abuse
working to share your talents
working to give
working to LOVE

A Labor of Love

KOKO

Not sure where it came from,
but my Mom used to say it all the time:

Keep On Keepin' On

She was the queen of KOKO.
No matter what came her way, she just kept going.
I try each day to be like her.
I search for positives;
I look for ways to help;
I acknowledge good deeds;
I applaud good efforts.
I may stumble over issues;
I may climb over hurdles;
I may jump over negatives;
I may have to breathe deep;
but I Keep On Keepin' On.

There is glory to be had;
in every second,
in every moment,
in every day,
in every failure,
in every victory,
in every person.

Keep On Keepin' On

The Weight of Words

When speaking, please realize that
the weight of your words
can greatly effect who they are hurled at.
Negative words carry no weight
as they slip from our lips;
but upon landing can destroy another being.

Positive words carry the same weight
yet when they find their target
they provide light and life and support
and encouragement and love.

Speak kindly.

Healthy is Wealthy

September celebrates being healthy.

Take a walk.
Work out.
Sweat a little.
It's good for the heart.

Read a book.
Learn something.
Educate yourself.
It's good for the mind.

Be thankful.
Be kind.
Be nice.
It's good for the soul.

Your People

We are given each day a set of people.
Some are strangers.
Some are family.
Some are friends.
Some are agitators.
Some are soothers.
Some are lifters.
Some are oppressors.
Some are pushers.
Some are pullers.
Each plays a role ~
in the moment,
in the day,
in your story,
in your life.
Find strength in the good.
Find lessons in the not-so-good.
Find purpose in your people.

Legacy

I am NOT about fame.
I am NOT about fortune.
I am NOT about headlines.

I am about the positive.
I am about the silver linings.
I am about the happy.
I am about making things better.
I am about being a difference.
I am about faith.
I am about love.
I am about you.

What will your legacy be?

Where Did That Come From?

We all have our comfort zones.
Our little areas we do not leave.
Our self-made havens of security.

Whether we choose to venture beyond those walls,
or we are forced to step outside those boundaries,
there's something I want to assure you of:

You'll be ok!

There is a strength,
a determination, a perseverance,
a full-on pink-bunny revelation
that comes out of nowhere
and allows us to continue;

one more step,
one more hour,
one more day,
one more hurdle.

And that journey, beyond those boundaries,
is worth every ounce of anxiety, of stress,
of questioning that takes place.

Go! Find amazing.

Sweet Success

There are many definitions of success.
Financial security.
Endless free time.
Gathering of gadgets and gizmos.
Race cars and race horses and racing lifestyles.
And you are entitled to chase whatever definition motivates you.

I believe my success is measured
by the positive impact I can provide each day.
If I can provide a better environment,
I'll fight for it.
If I can provide a little assistance,
I'm rolling up my sleeves.
If I can make you feel a little more secure,
I'll be your personal bodyguard.
If I can get you to chase after your dreams,
I'll tie your shoes.
If I can give you a glimmer of hope,
I have achieved sweet success.

What can I do for YOU today?

Be the oak

Be the oak.
Tall and mighty and firm in your roots.
Don't be swayed by the whims
of whatever direction the wind is blowing.
Know where you come from.
Stick steadfast to that foundation.
Grow and blossom and be grand.
The weather will come and go.
The seasons will ebb and flow.
Be true to what you are.

Safe Place

When the whole world seems to knock you down;
when the rat race seems to be pushing too hard;
when life just seems to be beating you up;
when every day is elbows and punches;
the safest place to be
is on your knees.

Searching

Searching.
We are all searching.
Some for jobs.
Some for homes.
Some for love.
Some for understanding.
Some for hope.
Some for forgiveness.
Some for kindness.
Some for faith.

It begins with a single step.
Seek and ye shall find.
Be bold enough to step into the unknown;
for therein lies the answer.

Search on.

Half Full

Today I turn 50!
Wow!
Half a century!

It has been an interesting life so far.
Lots of pain and hurdles and hardships.
Far more laughter and joy and love.
The latter is much more enjoyable
because of the former.

Here's hoping your day is a 'half full' kind of day.
Half full of
kindness, care, compassion,
faith, family/friends, fortitude,
happiness, hope, health,
embraces, enjoyment, enlightenment,
smiles, strength, and silliness.
And always . . .
with room for more.

Thanks for adding to the journey.
You make it better.

Silly Saturday

Remember to always have a little fun -
no matter your circumstances.

Today, I want you to beware of the three N's:

1. Negatives
Don't let them drag you down.
You have the choice to turn every one into a positive.

2. Nonsense
It doesn't have to be your circus or your monkeys.
You have the choice to walk away.

3. Nincompoops
This would be the problem of the aforementioned - not you.
You cannot be held responsible for the choices of the feeble minded.
You can be helpful, compassionate, and kind ~
but you can't fix stupid.

Enjoy your Saturday . . . N-less!

Hi Sunshine!

This is a greeting that I use frequently.
It serves many purposes.

It offers whoever it is delivered to a bright little point to their day.
Who doesn't want to know they light up the day?!

It gives me pause to realize that this person makes the day better.
No matter what's happening, it can get better now.

It allows you a moment to realize things aren't so bad.
No matter the weather, the sun will return.

It reminds me that things aren't so bad.
The warmth of the sun is never further away
than your choosing to bask in it.

So . . . Hi Sunshine!
Enjoy your day.
Thank you for making mine.

Good Morning!

Greet each day cheerfully and with great enthusiasm.

No matter where you are;
no matter what your circumstances;
no matter your current situation;
you've been offered another day,
another chance,
another opportunity
to do the right thing,
to be a better person,
to change someone's life,
to make a difference.

Good Morning!

Spirit

By Henri Frederic Amiel:

Any landscape is a condition of the spirit.

By Lynette Carol Rider Marinello:

And quite conversely, any condition is your spirit's landscape.

Chew on THAT!

Run From The Front

So, as if the Olympics were not inspiring enough,
there was a piece on an African long-distance runner.
When learning the sport, it was shared
that most runners huddle in the pack until the final lap
and then they unleash whatever reserves they have
to finish the race.

He didn't quite understand this concept.
His theory was:

Run From The Front Without Any Fear

Think on that for a second.
Wow!

(Oh and by the way - he's won Gold . . . TWICE!)

Anyway

People will be childish.
Be kind anyway.
People will be hurtful.
Be helpful anyway.
People will lie.
Be honest anyway.
People will whine.
Work hard anyway.
People will demand freebies.
Give graciously anyway.
People will be hateful.
Love anyway.

You are not a reaction.
Be a constant.
Be a beacon.
Be an example.
Be better.

Be you anyway.

Believe in You

It is not til you are tested
that you realize how strong you are.
It is not til you are beaten
that you realize how resilient you are.
It is not til you are broken
that you realize how tenacious you are.
It is not til you are hollow
that you realize how full life is.

You have within you
more courage
tenacity
strength
perseverance
faith
and fortitude
than you might ever realize.

Believe in You!

Surviving Chaos

Chaos
is nothing more than the devil's hand
stirring up the nonsense pot.
Although I know of no one who isn't immediately effected by
obstacles, turmoil, hardship, or curveballs . . .
it is how you respond that truly matters.
It's ok to fall apart.

It's ok to cry.
It's ok to rant and rave.
It's ok to snarl and even snap.
But then . . .

breathe . . .

and realize that it is nothing more that the devil's hand.

It will not win.
There is no victory in its actions.
You are better than that.
You are stronger than that.
You are braver than that.
You are much more intelligent
than to fall victim to such trivial rubbish.

You will survive!

The Best Gifts

I know that the holiday season is a ways off,
and believe me - being in retail - I'm not rushing it.
But I'm making an entirely different point.

The Best Gifts
aren't found during Christmas
or birthdays
or holidays of any sort.

The Best Gifts
are the friends you surround yourself with.
The ones who lift you up.
The ones who bring a smile to your face.
The ones who make your heart happy.
The ones who bring joy to your day.
Oh to open my life to them each day.
What a glorious gift to receive.

Thank you!
To The Best Gifts EVER!

What a Find!

Sometimes we are blessed
with what we need right when we need it.
I came across this yesterday, after a stressful day at work,
with a bit too much on my plate outside of work,
and the general insanity of life:

There's two things I judge harshly on;
the inability for one to admit when they are wrong,
and the lack of courage to say I'm sorry.
We are all wrong at some point,
but not all of us are sorry.

Fess up.
Be real.
Own your errors.
Clean the slate.
Move confidently on
in the direction of your dreams!

And Stuff!

So there's a little Ch-Angel with a birthday today!
She's an extraordinary human being,
but it's the 'and stuff' that makes the difference!

The support;
the determination;
the steadfastness;
the inner glow;
the shoulder to lean on;
the fellow delinquent;
the listener;
the hair cutter;
the selflessness;
the badassery;
the confidant;
the boldness;
the perseverance;
the laughter;
the peaceful, quiet coexistence;
the venting;
the omnipresence;
the love;
and stuff!

Everyone should have a friend like my Ch-Angel!
Enjoy your day!

Integrity

Integrity is defined as: adherence to moral and ethical principles;
soundness of character; undiminished; honesty.

There is very little in this world as important as one's word ~
or one's integrity.
It is what is done when there is nothing to gain;
nothing to prove;
nothing to achieve.
It is, quite simply, the core of one's self.

If one maintains honesty ~ there's no reason to remember stories.
If one maintains principles ~ there's no reason for false facades.
If one maintains character ~ there's no reason for altered behavior.

Consistency is key.
Kindness is integral.
Honesty is vital.

Take the integrity pledge:
I am me.
I am happy with me.
I will follow my path ~ no matter how unpopular
I will do the right thing ~ undeterred.
I will always be me ~ and that is fantastic!

Now, go be amazing!

Your Job

I was raised to respect the janitor as much as the company president.
Neither man is more important than the other;
and both must function to their fullest
in order for the other to be successful.

If you are a ditch digger,
dig the best, most beautiful ditches there ever was.
If you are a waitress,
tend to those guests as though they were family.
If you are a receptionist,
greet those folks with the warmth of pure sunshine.
If you are a cashier,
smile and take care of every customer as though
they were the ONLY customer.
If you are a president,
work with your people, lead by example,
set guidelines, applaud exceptional service,
be the reason your employees want to advance.

We can't just do the part of the job we like.
You have to do your whole job.
For if you only do a portion, you are burdening others
with the work you've left undone.

If we all work together,
in compliment,
oh . . . what a wonderful world it would be.

The 3 B's

We know the 3 R's.
I've written about the 3 P's.
Today, I implore you to exercise your 3 B's.

Be Giving.
Be Kind.
Be Loving.

There are about a million other things we should be,
but those probably top the list. And then, perhaps . . .

Be Well.
Be Happy.
Be Wonderful.

I'm pretty sure though, that if you own the first three,
the second set comes naturally!

Enjoy your day.

Li'l Sweet

No, silly person, I'm not talking about the diet Dr. Pepper mascot.
I'm talking about those tiny things that people do
that truly touch your heart.
Doesn't need to be a bucket o' money,
or a new car,
or fancy jewelry.

Sometimes, to round a corner and hear someone talking nicely about you,
without provocation, want of reciprocation, or reward
just makes your heart sing.
Sometimes to get a text that says
"All will work out because you're good people."
makes the whole day better.
Sometimes just a wee phone call faux yelling at you because you're moving
just wraps you up in warmth and love.

Today, go out there and do a Li'l Sweet.
Don't complain.
Don't gossip.
Don't condemn.
Do a Li'l Sweet and see what comes back at you!

Helping

Listened to a dear friend tell me a story about her son.
He felt like he should do more to help other people.
So, one day he did.
And when he got to his job that he was about to lose,
he was offered another position within the company.

Coincidence?
Believe what you want.

I choose to believe that the best way in which to help yourself
is to help other people.
When I get so knotted up in my own nonsense,
I take a deep breath, look around, and listen.
I find someone in need, someone hurting, someone down.
I do whatever I am able to assist, to soothe, to lift them up.
And, by the time I'm done exhausting myself for them,
my issues seem to have untangled themselves.

To put another soul before your own
is a blessing for that soul,
and a beautiful gift to yourself!

Don't get any on ya!

There comes a time
when the smartest, healthiest, wisest, safest
thing that you can do is
NOT to respond;
NOT to react;
NOT to plot;
NOT to argue;
NOT to fight;
NOT to scream;
NOT to participate.

The best thing to do is
to simply smile, nod, and walk away.

To leave a hot mess
with integrity, dignity, and morals
is a beautiful thing.

Don't get any on ya!

Simple Things

Do not get all tangled up
in the tendrils of societal nonsense.
Instead,
breathe . . .
enjoy and embrace the simple things . . .

mists over meadows,
sunbeams through the clouds,
moonlight on water,
happy chirping birds,
lazy, lapping waves,
winding wooded pathways,

and knowing you are loved!

Under Construction

Whether you are one day old or a hundred years old,
we are all Under Construction.
If you aren't learning and education yourself daily,
you're already dead.

Sometimes, it's not about learning facts and figures,
but instead learning to navigate a situation;
where to step and where NOT to step;
what to say and what NOT to say;
what to do and what NOT to do;
when to stand up and when to walk away;
when to join the circus and when to get out of the ticket line;
when to speak and when to listen;
when to hug and when to just exist beside someone.

Skills that aren't taught, only learned
in this rugged adventure called Life.

I wish for you today, construction that is always positive,
no matter how painful or how far the detour takes you.

Ch-Angels

I am a lucky girl.
I have two incredible children.
I have an amazing husband.
I am, mostly, healthy.
I am, mostly, intelligent and articulate.
I am blessed to be surrounded by Ch-Angels!

Those friends and family members who, without hesitation,
lift me up;
give me wings;
talk sense to me;
hug me tight;
understand me;
push me;
pull me;
laugh with me;
sit with me;
pray with me;
pray for me;
support me;
steady me;
love me.

It is an honor.
Thank you.

I hope you have your Ch-Angels too.

So Very True

A quote I came across that stopped me dead in my tracks.
This is my life motto.
There will always be curveballs, hurdles and inconceivable obstacles.
But . . . by Charlotte Whitton . . .

When one must, one can.

POP

POP - Power Of Prayer

It is extraordinary.
It is soothing.
It is exciting.
It is fulfilling.
It is uplifting.
It is joyous.
It is enveloping.
It is overwhelming.
It is vital.
It is needed.
It is necessary.

POP on your own.
POP with someone else.
POP for someone else.

Just be sure you POP!

Worth Repeating

From ye old RWE:

To laugh often and much;
to win the respect of intelligent people
and the affection of children . . .
to leave the world a better place . . .
to know even one life has breathed easier
because you have lived;
This is to have succeeded.

I wish you all much success today.

From Within

There are plenty of us who are hurting;
either physically, mentally or emotionally.

We've lost some one or some thing
that we've held dear;
we've been cut off from something
we care about;
we've been betrayed or hurt
or feel disrespected in some way;
we've witnessed something terrible;
we're facing a seemingly
insurmountable obstacle.

Let me assure you . . .
you got this!

There is something
so phenomenal,
so extraordinary,
so miraculous
that lies deep at the core of each of us
that just waits to obliterate that hurt.

It is stamina.
It is tenacity.
It is strength.
It is faith.
It is fortitude.
It is hope.
It is beautiful.
It is

From Within.

You Got This!

Be The Reason

I have a morning ritual,
as I'm sure most everyone does.
One step is to bow my head
at the beautiful crucifix I received from my mom and Alfonso
and ask for guidance for the day,
for the chance to do the right thing,
for an opportunity to help someone,
for an open door that I can do some good,
to be the reason
that someone's day is better.

Today, and every day, go . . .

Be The Reason

Good Surroundings

One of the single best things you can do for yourself
is to surround yourself with what makes you happy.

This begins with what you wear.
Be comfortable and brilliant and bold.
Where you live.
Plant pretty flowers, or walk by the water,
or take a stroll through the woods.
Those you associate with.
Make sure they are positive and productive.
Make sure they are supportive and spectacular.
What's in your heart.
Make sure it is filled with all things pleasant and loving and kind.

When you have planted all the proper things around you,
the negative things fall away,
they seem less invasive,
and the good becomes better.

Go . . . plant well.

Give Plenty

So, I'm a little disheartened by the actions of a few.
I'm going to try to cheer myself up by doing what comes naturally to me;
writing and being positive.

Where you find hate,
give plenty of love.
Where you find anger,
give plenty of understanding.
Where you find confusion,
give plenty of attention.
Where you find pain,
give plenty of comfort.
Where you find tears,
give plenty of compassion.
Where you find loss,
give plenty of sympathy.
Where you find discord,
give plenty of hope.
Where you find hate,
give plenty of love.

The world is full of negative things.
The world is also full of wonderful things.
You are the keeper of your temper,
your actions,
your behavior,
your decisions,
your choices,
your heart.

Where you find need . . .
Give Plenty!

3 H's

We've all heard of the 3 R's ~ Reading, Writing & 'Rithmetic
(which kind of scares me because only one of them is really an 'R').
I'm here today to remind you of the 3 H's:

Health, Happiness & Hope

Each is vital to your existence.
None is attainable without the others.

Ponder THAT for a moment.

2 vs 1

We have two ears, and only one mouth.
We have two eyes, and only one nose.
We have two hands, and only one head.

So . . .

It must be twice as important to listen
as it is to speak.
It must be twice as important to see
as it is to sniff things out.
It must be twice as important to lend a hand
than to ponder why.

Listen and learn.
See all perspectives.
Offer assistance when possible . . .

it's ALWAYS possible.

Embrace the Unknown

There are times when we might feel lost,
uncertain,
confused,
frightened,
scared
of what the next minute, hour, day might hold.

Embrace the Unknown

You cannot control and plan every detail.
You can, however, decide how you react.

That leap of faith you take
may be as tiny as a shuffled step,
but it is movement forward nonetheless.
Take it.
Enjoy it.
Bask in it.
Thrive in it.

Embrace the Unknown

Avoid the Piles

Came across a Facebook post a few days ago
that literally made me laugh out loud and really start thinking.
As you know, my daily thought process begins with:

You can be happy or you can be crappy.

The day evolves around your choice.
To elaborate . . . step two:
much the same as when I'm mowing the dog's back yard . . .

Avoid the Piles!

There will always be piles.
There will always be things to step in.
There will always be smelly, nasty things in your way.
Avoid them!
There is no point in stomping on it.
No purpose in traipsing through it.
You might be able to shovel it up,
but rarely have a decent place to dispose of it.
Just . . . please . . .

Avoid the Piles!

Choose Happy and Avoid the Piles!

Together

Today marks TWENTY-SIX years of marriage
for my dear, sweet hubby and me.
It astounds me.

That two souls literally stumbled over each other in a parking lot
and have since then walked through fire together,
raised two incredible human beings together, sweat together,
laughed together, cried together, danced together, argued together,
played together,  prayed together, talked together, goofed off together,
ooh-ed and aah-ed together, whispered together, people watched together,
fished together, racquetballed together, hiked together, swam together,
fought together, discussed together, cleaned together, saved together,
gave back together, supported together, cheered together, got lost together,
explored together, trained together, moped together, whined together,
got angry together, loved together, laughed together some more and,
perhaps, most importantly . . . loved being together!

To simply sit so comfortably beside someone without expectation
of conversation, activity, agenda or motive, but for the sheer sake
of being near them because it makes your heart happy . . .
THAT is bliss!

I wish you all that sort of bliss.
I wish you all my Together.

TTNH

We are a world choking on acronyms.
So . . . what's one more?

We are aware of
SWAK:
Sealed With A Kiss
TTFN:
Ta Ta For Now
KISS:
Keep It Simple Stupid
DIRFT:
Do It Right the First Time

and now . . .
possibly my new favorite . . .

TTNH:
Til The Next Hug

Need to relieve some tension ~ find someone to hug.
Need to feel secure and safe ~ find someone to hug.
Need a little hope and support ~ find someone to hug.
Need to feel a little love ~ find someone to hug.

TTNH!

His Hand

Ever sat alone on a bench outside only to have a random ray of sunshine
inch its way across the field to find you and warm you?
Ever questioned your circumstances, feeling almost pitiful,
only to have a defining song, answering all your queries, pop on the radio?
Ever listlessly waded through a turbulent day
only to run across a long lost friend, or a $20 bill?
Ever miss someone so very much that your heart physically aches
and then some random stranger speaks words only they would have said to you?

I believe in MORE than happenstance.
I believe in MORE than coincidence.
I believe in MORE than chance.

I believe His Hand still provides miracles!

May His Hand greet you today . . . and every day.

Integral

There has been much hate and death and anger in the world as of late.
In my own little corner, loss and sadness.

But . . .
And there's ALWAYS a but . . .

We gathered to celebrate WHO we lost.
We gathered to remember good times.
We gathered to cherish friendships.
And this happened not only in my own little corner,
but all over.

To gather ~ united ~ is integral
to our health
to our hearts
to our souls
to our lives
to our existence.

Embrace the Difference

The rose is exquisite;
yet the daisy invokes an entirely different emotion.
The ocean is expansive;
yet a babbling brook does wonders for the soul.
A city skyline is impressive;
yet a backdrop of mountains frees the mind.
Lobster is simply scrumptious;
yet a backyard bbq owns its own place in my heart.

Different isn't bad.
Different isn't scary.
Different isn't hateful.

Different is beautiful.
Different adds exponentially.

Embrace the Difference.

Why?

Is there really ever a good answer?
Or even any answer?
Why am I sick?
Why did this happen?
Why did they pass away?
Why did I get fired?
Why did she betray me?
The 'why' always lingers.

The only answer is
to walk in faith that there really is a bigger picture.
Maybe there is sickness to appreciate health.
Maybe problems arise to avert your attention.
Maybe our loss is heaven's gain.
Maybe a new, better job awaits.
Maybe the drama is best left in your rearview.
We just don't know.
But we must find some positive and . . .
perhaps most importantly . . .
continue to move forward.
When you are mired in the unknown, you sink.

Personally, I believe we face what we face
to assist someone else.
In that belief, my sorrow and stress
is lessened every time I offer a hand, an ear, my heart.

Hoping your question is answered soon.

Happy

In the morning,
as a new dawn breaks,
I will sometimes sit on my patio
sipping my coffee
petting my dog
consumed not by the tasks before me
nor taxed by the weight of the day.
I just sit.
I just listen.
I watch the birds and the lizards.
I just exist.
Peaceful.
Content.
Blessed.
Happy.

Try it. You'll like it.

Ch-Angel Dan

I try to bring light to Ch-Angels while they beam upon the earth.
Sometimes, though, their work is done and they are called home very early.

Ch-Angel Dan, you great big giant teddy bear . . .
You were a veteran, a husband, and father to the masses.
To teach is to touch a life forever and, without doubt, you did that.
You were the biggest kid out there during PE and the biggest heart on campus.
You enveloped all those around you with a warmth and kindness unparalleled.
To know you was a gift.
To have called you 'friend' was a blessing.

You listened, hugged like no other, laughed, played, cared and supported.
You lived. Large!
Thank you for the millions of conversations of football - Seminoles and Steelers.
Thank you for the millions of tears allowed to be spilled upon your jersey-ed shoulders.
Thank you for saving me from the psycho lady at school.
Thank you for laughing about it with me afterward.
Thank you for the bike ride to pay your bills.
Thank you for just sitting with me.
Thank you for people watching with me.
Thank you for the umpteen Pioneer Days.
Thank you for embracing my children as if they were your own.
They adore you!
Thank you being a member of our family for so very long.
Thank you for YOU!

Enjoy your wings, my friend.

Point Your Shoes

My grandfather had just a grand school of thought.
He used to say, quite frequently:

Point Your Shoes In Another Direction

This is such good advice . . .
on so many levels and for so many things.
You are not quitting.
You are not forfeiting.
You are not folding.

Quite the opposite.

You are smart enough;
brave enough;
bold enough;
to walk away from the nonsense,
the conceit,
the chaos,
the bullchit (another Billy Bots term),
and find a better, less stressful viewpoint.

Sometimes walking away from the argument,
putting distance between yourself and the idiocy,
is the purest and best judgement you can exercise.

Point Your Shoes . . .

Freedom

Freedom ~ at any level ~ is not free.
It takes sacrifice and determination and tenacity.

We have what we have because of the sacrifices
of countless folks before us.
We have what we have because of the determination
of countless folks who choose to stand up for us.
We have what we have because of the tenacity
of countless folks who fight for what we want.

Enjoy your barbecues.
Enjoy your burgers and dogs,
your beer and your wine.
Enjoy your family, festivities and fireworks.
Remember, though, WHAT you're celebrating.

May God continue to bless America.

Independent

One of my favorite movie lines is when Rudolph asks Hermie
if he can be independent with him.

In our need to be free of the tethers of
society,
government,
rules,
regulations,
there is an ever-present desire to be attached by
touch,
caring,
support,
love.

Go be independent,
but never forget that we will always depend
on one another for the essentials in life.

We are one

As we celebrate the independence of our nation this weekend,
let us try to celebrate also the independence of one another.
We are each unique and amazing creatures.
We each have purpose and value.
Let's not condemn.
Let's not breed contempt and hatred.
Let us, instead,
open our ears
open our minds,
open our hearts
to the vast kaleidoscope of beautiful souls in existence.
Let us rejoice in the differences.
Let us bask in our individual exceptionalism.
While we become fully aware that we are all made
of the same flesh and bone and blood.
We are billions.
We are one.
Independent dependents.

There is love

There is love.

There is hate and fear and madness;
but there is also love.

There is bullying and belittling and bashing;
but there is also love.

There is ugliness and unfairness and unrest;
but there is also love.

Find the love.
Embrace the love.
BE the love.

One feather at a time

The power of your mind is extraordinary.
If you believe you can attain something ~ you can.
If you believe you can do something ~ you will.

I have always believed that I am surrounded by Angels.
At my lowest points, there has been some random incident,
that sometimes literally would shine a light on me.
I believe it was my Angels.
The more I believe, the more I am surrounded.

Ch-Angels ~ those people whose kindness and selfless gestures
lift others up and support them and love them ~ are abundant.

If you choose to see them, they are everywhere.
I am blessed and lucky enough to enjoy their company
on a daily basis.
You become that with which you associate.
I will earn my wings.
One feather at a time, baby!
One feather at a time.

Your Choice

Seems appropriate for election time.

Each day that you are blessed and lucky enough
to emerge from your bedroom,
you have a choice:

Happy or Crappy.

Each idiot driver that cuts you off, doesn't let you in,
weaves through traffic,
you have a choice:

Arrive Alive or Road Rage.

Each bit of stupidity that affronts your day,
deserves a choice:

Point Your Shoes in Another Direction or Join the Circus.

Each hurdle, roadblock, setback you come to,
you have a choice:

Persist or Collapse.

Our political votes may not mean much,
but the choices you make each day are
simple but extraordinary!

Wow!

So . . . sometimes I come across these quotes and I am literally stopped dead in my tracks.
The words jump off the page and wrap themselves around me.
I know that all things literary are about timing.
This may not be the time for it to impact you,
but it just made me say, "Wow!"
If it finds you today . . . super.


No man ever steps in the same river twice;
for it's not the same river and he's not the same man.


Booyah!

Posinormal!

A little light-heartedness for a Saturday.
Having just seen Conjuring 2 - the paranormal is on my mind.
But, instead of creepy, supernatural, scary things . . .
I would like you to focus on being:

Posinormal!

In opposition to otherworldly stuff,
I want you to focus on what is right in front of you.
The folks you care most about.
The place you call home.
The friends you hold dear.

Be a Positive Phenomenon!
Raise folks up.
Speak only good things.
Stop stirring the pot.
Be an asset to everything you touch.
Listen and love and care.

Go be posinormal!

You Are The One

Ultimately, YOU are the one.

The one who chooses if:
you will be happy
you will have a good day
you will share a smile
you will offer a hand
you will do the right thing
you will be kind
you will be gracious
you will loving.

YOU are in charge.
You Are The One.

You Are The One

Ultimately, YOU are the one.

The one who decides:
whether you are happy or not
whether you are good enough or not
who is allowed to hurt you or not
who can enter your realm or not
if you will have a grand day or not
if you will display a smile or not.

The choice is yours.
You Are The One.

Do that stuff!

Not sure where it originated.
Not sure it matters.
The quote, expounded, goes something like this:

Always leave things better than you found them.
No one should leave your presence unhappy.
Make a difference whenever you are able.
A comfortable silence is enveloped bliss.
A hug speaks volumes.

Go . . . do that stuff!

Go and be

Embellishing on Raoul Dufy:

My eyes were made to erase all that is ugly.
My lips were made to speak only positive.
My ears were made to listen and learn.
My arms were made to offer hugs.
My heart was made to love.
I was made to make a difference.

Go and be.

Some Ch-Angel Wisdom

There are a few Ch-Angels that I have known for a vast majority of my years.
Susie - who knew me before I was me.
Nancy - who grew me to be a better me.
Two of my very early favorites!

But one who came later, when I was in 6th or 7th grade,
has just become a beautifully integral member of my family.
He began as a friend of a friend and turned, truly, in family.
He was with us when family wasn't.
He listened when no one else would.
He never ever judged and always simply loved and supported.
He has several favorite phrases that I just adore
and most of us can live by:

Do the right thing.
Who's better than you?
You're a good person.
You're a good friend.

Very simple.
Very unembellished.
Very fantastically perfect words to live by.

You're a beautiful soul, Ch-Angel Lenny.
Thank you!

Labels

Some folks shop for specific logos:
Coach, Gucci, Fendi, Wang.
Others shop for comfort.
Some folks need the i-everything.
Others buy what works.
Some folks seek Ferrari.
Others just get happy when their car starts.
Neither is wrong.
All those items serve a purpose.
Each exists to do some specific thing.

Are we not the same?
Why do we continue to label each other?
Why do we label ourselves?

Beyond the color of your skin,
where you were born,
your ethnicity,
your social status,
your financial status;
we all bleed the same color.
We are all humans.

Until we realize this,
we are sadly doomed.

Learn to lose the labels.
Embrace the differences between one another;
because in reality ~ there are none.
Which only leaves . . . the embrace.

Daddio!

Anyone can be a father,
but it takes someone very special
to be a dad.

To be that guy who stands up, steps up,
changes diapers, changes minds,
steers, guides, advises,
sets limits, sets boundaries,
and then urges you to push through them;
that guy is extraordinary.

The one who leads, but includes;
teaches, but explains;
offers, but allows;
pushes, but catches;
limits, but loves.
THAT guy!

I have had four fathers.
Lucky or not, each served an amazing purpose.
And now, I am married to a man
who has simply become an incredible all-of-the-above person.
My children are blessed ~ as am I.

Props to all those dads out there
that do the right thing, no matter what.
To those that fill the shoes that were left by others,
and to those moms that wear both hats.

Enjoy your day!
And thank you!